This multi-awarded Finnish movie by Director Aleksi Salmenpera is emotional and deeply evaluates issues surrounding marital relationships,  having a child as well as lesbian relationships.  It's  a realistic, honest-to-goodness treatment of the dilemmas that a couple has to go through and of putting priorities in perspective; whether it be career and goals before having children and starting a family.  Director Salmenpera who has been identified  with TV dramas  effectively brings out the best in the cast with the characters of Venla, Antero and Satu well-developed with the actors giving commendable performances all throughout.  Interesting to watch and as the title indicates,  it  takes some really serious matters like bearing a child to be able to produce adults!