I have been exclusively gay all my life. I have been a teacher; my love was theater; But I have done many other things in my life. In the past 8 years I have loved Thailand and Malaysia. I have a Filipino lover and a small house in the Philippines but because of the homophobia so rampant in the culture, that I do not visit there anymore. Being gay affect every facet of my life and my personal culture. I am very grateful that I was born a gay person. It has given me great joy and the love of several beautiful men in my life. I am in the process of publishing a book about a love story between a middle ages white man and a 31 year old black man. It is called The Song of David. I hope to make a film of their relationship.